Serious is not always boring

I always thought..infact believed tht serious is boring..not always !..when ppl do not react normal..it is not always advisable to try n make them laugh..it sumtimes needs sumthin else to get them back to normal..may be lend an ear to them..give them a shoulder to cry..u stop speaking n let them speak for a while..
U need ppl to listen to u as much as u need ppl to listen to u..u someties need to understand the gravity of the situation and react accordingly..u need to think before u spk at times....coz u cannot take back wot u have alrdy said....sometimes words can b more dangerous than a sword...it might cut a person's feelings..might hurt them.....learnt a lot today by a small incident....thnx to tht one fren !